How Long Does Love Take?
Are You In Love Or Are You “In Infatuation”?
Do you believe in Love at first sight? I don’t. Sorry to kill the romance. What do you consider it love? What is infatuation? What, exactly, are you willing to do to find the man or woman of your dreams? Because, the answer to those three questions will...read more
Does Having Kids Have To Mark the End of Traveling?
Someone messaged us on Instagram, asking a pretty important question: My Response: Skip to the video. “Hey ———, nice to meet you and thanks! This is Christian, btw. Deborah might answer a bit differently. My opinion is that you should go for exactly what...read more
Keeping Things Fresh and Exciting in a Longterm Relationship
Most of us expect to improve throughout our lives. We work to achieve our peak athletic performance, we read books to improve fluency and brain power, we nearly kill ourselves, always chasing more money in our careers, but after a certain point, we're...read more
Why My Wife’s Self-Worth Made Me Want Her
Self-worth, simply put, is knowing fundamentally what you want, and not bending to others’ opinions, schedules, or emotional pleas. It’s the most attractive attribute you could ever find in a partner, and the primary reason I knew Deborah was THE ONE. I...read more
Successful Long Term Relationships Have These Two Essential Ingredients
One of my Instagram followers, we’ll call her Neila because I think that’s a badass name, sent me this message the other day: “I’m wondering if you can give me advice..I’m feeling my boyfriend and I moving further and further apart…I don’t know him as well...read more
Don’t Miss Participating In Your Own Life. 3 Techniques To Make the Most of Time and Help You Fall In Love Again. Every Day.
I remember the day my baby was born in vivid detail. I remember the color of the paint on the walls, the names of the nurses who tended to us. I remember the taste of the coffee at the hospital, the orientation of the bathroom from the induction room. I remember the...read more
Our 2017 Journey Major Milestones of the Year
It's the end of the year. We've been talking about writing something for the last day of 2017, and we came in at seven hours 'til midnight. That's called procrastination, and it's going to stop next year. But enough about resolutions. Let's reflect: We started the...read more
We're Officially Grown Up! And Furnished Our First Home.Did We Clash Heads?
Have you ever talked about a washing machine over breakfast with your partner? I have. It took me until about five minutes ago to realize how weird it was. The fact made its way to the front of my brain, because five minutes ago I was researching the washing machine....read more
How to Argue With Your Partner
Conflict is healthy. Fighting? Maybe not so much. We all have spats every now and then, and that's healthy. If two people agreed 100% of the time, they wouldn't make a progressive couple, because each would bring the exact same perspective into the partnership as the...read more
Six Reasons We Decided to Commit to One Another
It’s been one of those days when me and Deborah just look into each other’s eyes over the coffee table. We realized today that we’ve been together for two and a half years. So much has happened in that time. It makes us think of what made us so certain about each...read more