Author: Christian & Deborah

Self-worth, simply put, is knowing fundamentally what you want, and not bending to others’ opinions, schedules, or emotional pleas. It’s the most attractive attribute you could ever find in a partner, and the primary reason I knew Deborah was THE ONE. I fell for Deborah right on the very first beach we ever walked together. There was something about the Mexican air, the blue hue of the water, the depth of our conversations. I was hooked. But it seemed Deborah wasn’t. While I was busy thinking about her all day, she was off living a full life. One day,...

One of my Instagram followers, we’ll call her Neila because I think that’s a badass name, sent me this message the other day: “I’m wondering if you can give me advice..I’m feeling my boyfriend and I moving further and further apart…I don’t know him as well as I used to…” Skip to the video She went on to describe more of her situation, but I’ll leave it at that in terms of her exact words. What Neila described to me was a relationship that started beautiful, but settled into routine, like so many others do. There was nothing wrong with...